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10 Tips To Make Positive Thinking Easy

Positive thinking can lead to a lot of positive change in your life. Developing an optimistic outlook can be good for both your physical and mental health. But sometimes, certain situations arise in life that makes it hard to keep a positive outlook. Take steps to make positive thinking become more like second nature and you’ll reap some big benefits. Here are 10 tips to make positive thinking easy.

1. Spend Time with Positive People

If you surround yourself with constant complainers, their negativity is likely to rub off on you. Spend time with positive friends and family members to increase the likelihood that their positive thinking habits will become your habits as well. It’s hard to be negative when everyone around you is so positive.

2. Take Responsibility for Your Behavior

When you encounter problems and difficulties in life, don’t play the role of the victim. Acknowledge your role in the situation and take responsibility for your behavior. Accepting responsibility can help you learn from mistakes and prevent you from blaming others unfairly.

3. Contribute to the Community

One of the best ways to feel good about what you have, is to focus on what you have to give. Volunteer in some manner and give back to the community. Helping others can give you a new outlook on the world and can assist you with positive thinking.

4. Read Positive and Inspirational Material

Spend time each day reading something that encourages positive thinking. Read the Bible, spiritual material, or inspirational quotes to help you focus on what’s important to you in life. It can be a great way to start and end your day.

5. Recognize and Replace Negative Thoughts

You won’t be successful at positive thinking if you’re still plagued by frequent negative thoughts. Learn to recognize and replace thoughts that are overly negative. Often, thoughts that include words like “always” and “never” signal that they aren’t true.
If you find yourself thinking something such as, “I always mess everything up,” replace it with something more realistic such as, “Sometimes I make mistakes but I learn from them.” There’s no need to make your thoughts unrealistically positive, but instead, make them more realistic.

6. Establish and Work Toward Goals

It’s easier to be positive about problems and setbacks when you have goals that you’re working toward. Goals will give you motivation to overcome those obstacles when you encounter problems along the way. Without clear goals, it’s harder to make decisions and gauge your progress.

7. Consider the Consequences of Negativity

Spend some time thinking about the consequences of negative thinking. Often, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. For example, a person who thinks, “I probably won’t get this job interview,” may put less effort into the interview. As a result, he may decrease his chances of getting the job.
Create a list of all the ways negative thinking impacts your life. It likely influences your behavior, your relationships, and your feelings. Then, create a list of the ways in which positive thinking could be beneficial.

8. Offer Compliments to Others

Look for reasons to compliment others. Be genuine in your praise and compliments, but offer it frequently. This will help you look for the good in other people.

9. Create a Daily Gratitude List

If you start keeping a daily gratitude list, you’ll start noticing exactly how much you have to be thankful for. This can help you focus on the positive in your life instead of thinking about all the bad things that have happened in the day. Getting in the habit of showing an attitude of gratitude makes positive thinking more of a habit.

10. Practice Self-Care

Take good care of yourself and you’ll be more equipped to think positively. Get plenty of rest and exercise and practice managing your stress well. Taking care of your physical and mental health will provide you with more energy to focus on positive thinking.

WHAT IS POSITIVE THINKING?

Positive thinking is about more than the thoughts
that you have. It is an entire approach to life. It
means focusing on the positives in any situation,
rather than the negatives. It means thinking well
of yourself rather than constantly putting yourself
down. It means thinking well of others, and dealing
with them positively. It means expecting the best
from the world, and trusting it will provide.

Living with positivity
 
Positive thinkers look back on the past with
satisfaction rather than regret, and into the
future with optimism and hope.

THREE PARTS OF YOUR SELF-CONCEPT

Your self-concept has three parts, like a pie divided into three
wedges. Each is linked with each of the others. All three elements
together make up your personality.They largely determine what you
think, feel, and do, and everything that happens to you.
Your self-ideal is the first part of your personality and your selfconcept.
Your self-ideal is made up of all of your hopes, dreams,
visions, and ideals.Your self-ideal is composed of the virtues, values,
and qualities that you most admire in yourself and others.
Your self-ideal is the person you would most like to become, if you
could be a perfect person in every way. These ideals guide and
shape your behavior.
Great men and women, leaders, and people of character are
very clear about their values, visions, and ideals. They know who
they are and what they believe in.They set high standards for themselves,
and they don’t compromise those standards. They are men
and women that others can look up to and depend on.They are definite
and distinct in their interactions with others. In everything
they do, they strive to live up to their ideals.

THE WAY YOU SEE YOURSELF
The second part of your self-concept is your self-image. This is the
way you see yourself and think about yourself. It is often called your
“inner mirror.” It is where you look internally to see how you
should behave in a particular situation. Because of the power of
your self-image, you always perform on the outside consistent with
the picture you have of yourself on the inside.
The discovery of the self-image, pioneered by Maxwell Maltz, is
a major breakthrough in understanding human performance and effectiveness.
By visualizing and imagining yourself performing at your
best in an upcoming situation, you send a message to your subconscious
mind.Your subconscious mind accepts this message as a command,
and then coordinates your thoughts, words, and actions so
that they fit a pattern consistent with the picture you created.
All improvement in your life begins with an improvement in
your mental pictures.Your internal images influence your emotions,
your behaviors, your attitudes, and even the way other people respond
to you. The development of a positive self-image is a vital
part of changing your thinking and changing your life.

HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF
The third part of your self-concept is your self-esteem. This is the
emotional component of your personality, and is the most important
factor in determining how you think, feel, and behave. Your
level of self-esteem largely determines much of what happens to
you in life.
Your self-esteem is best defined as how much you like yourself.
The more you like yourself, the better you perform at anything you
attempt. And by the law of reversibility, the better you perform, the
more you like yourself.
Your self-esteem is the “reactor core” of your personality. It is
the energy source that determines your levels of confidence and
enthusiasm. The more you like yourself, the higher will be the
standards you will set for yourself. The more you like yourself, the
bigger the goals you will set for yourself and the longer you will
persist in achieving them. People with high self-esteem are virtually
unstoppable.
Your level of self-esteem determines the quality of your relationships
with others. The more you like and respect yourself, the more
you like and respect others and the better they feel toward you. In
your business life and career, your personal level of self-esteem will
be the critical factor that determines whether or not people will buy
from you, hire you, enter into business dealings with you, and even
lend you money.
The better your self-esteem, the better you will be as a spouse
and parent. High self-esteem parents raise high self-esteem children.
These children develop high levels of self-confidence and associate
with other high self-esteem children. High self-esteem
homes are characterized by love, laughter, and happiness for everyone
who lives there.

CHANGE YOUR THINKING, CHANGE YOUR LIFE

THE TRUTH ABOUT YOU

You are a thoroughly good person.You deserve a wonderful life, full
of success, happiness, joy, and excitement.You are entitled to have
happy relationships, excellent health, meaningful work, and financial
independence. These are your birthright. This is what your life
is meant to include.
You are engineered for success and designed to have high levels
of self-esteem, self-respect, and personal pride. You are extraordinary;
there has never been anyone exactly like you in all the history
of mankind on earth.You have absolutely amazing untapped talents
and abilities that, when properly unleashed and applied, can bring
you everything you could ever want in life.
You are living at the greatest time in all of human history.You
are surrounded by abundant opportunities that you can take advantage
of to realize your dreams. The only real limits on what you can
be, do, or have are the limits you place on yourself by your own
thinking.Your future is virtually unlimited.